Blogging With a Purpose: 10 Survival Tips For the Expecting Mom

The first time I found out I was pregnant, back in 2009, I was scared and thrilled and thought that, surely, being pregnant wasn't going to cramp my style.  I was going to keep wearing my heels and getting my nails done and I wasn't going to let pregnancy change me.  I was about 5 weeks along when we found out, and those lasted until about week 7, at which point first trimester fatigue hit me with the force of a speeding Mack truck and I had zero desire to do any sort of upkeep on myself.

I remember how for months everyone and their mother kept giving me tips and advice for surviving pregnancy, both solicited and not.  Sleep now, because you're not going to once that baby gets here!  Try primrose oil/walking/jumping jacks/lots of sex to get labor started once you're near your due date.  Don't pick a name that's too trendy.  Don't pick a name that's not trendy enough.  The list goes on and on.  So, for this week's blogging with a purpose, here are my own tips (in no particular order) for all of you expectant mothers:


1.  Take any and all advice with a grain of salt.  Seriously.  Most people have nothing but the best intentions when they offer a suggestion, but don't feel like you have to adhere to everyone's rules for pregnancy.  This is your experience. 

2.  Take lots of belly photos.   One of my biggest regrets from my first pregnancy was that I took, maybe, a total of 6 pictures the whole time I was pregnant.  And those were just ones that I happened to be in, not ones that were specifically for showing off my baby bump.  Strut that bump proudly, mamas!  Take at least one picture every 4 weeks.  And don't forget to label them so you know the date and how far along you were in each of them.  I LOVE looking back at all the belly pictures I took during my second pregnancy, and I so wish that I had thought to do it with my first.  There's something so sweet and awe-inspiring about seeing your belly grow and knowing that your baby is in there just waiting to be born.

3.  Sleep when you're tired.  Everyone always says this and, after my first was born, it used to annoy me whenever someone said it.  How am I supposed to sleep when I've got this sweet, adorable, little miracle that I can look at and hold whenever I want to?  I never slept when my babies slept.  Never.  But when I was pregnant?  You better believe I did!  With both of my pregnancies, I was so exhausted in the first trimester that I used to fall asleep in the middle of the day and was out cold for the night by 8pm.  In fact, that familiar feeling of exhaustion was what clued me in to the fact that I was, indeed, pregnant the second time around.  It gets better in the 2nd trimester, but then that old familiar friend comes back again in the 3rd trimester.  Don't fight it...sleep!  It's hard work growing a baby.  If this is your first pregnancy you should have no problem just passing out whenever (and wherever) you want.  If you've got other kids, though, don't feel guilty about letting your partner take over the nighttime duties so you can get some extra rest.

4. Don't stress about getting everything done.  The first time around, I made sure that all baby clothes were washed and put away and that the nursery was all set and ready to go by the time I was about 21 weeks along.  I stressed myself and Scott out for weeks because I wanted it done before the baby came and you know what?  She didn't spend more than 3 minutes at a time in there until she was 5 months old.  Everything will come together and things will get done, so don't waste precious time worrying about it.  And if the baby's room isn't finished before he or she gets here?  No big deal.  All they need, really, is a bassinet or a pack-and-play to sleep in, and you're good to go.  You'll have plenty of time to sweat the small stuff after the baby is born.

5.  Don't let other people's opinions influence you.  When it comes to choosing your baby's name, your nursery colors or theme, how you plan to give birth, how you plan to feed your baby...everyone has an opinion about everything.  Think about what you want to do and how you want to raise your child, and do that.  Scott and I had decided on a name for our son before we had even gotten married, so when we found out that our second baby was a boy we were good to go.  But when people inevitably asked what we were planning to name him and we told them, we got a lot of mixed responses.  "But that's such an old man name."  "Are you really going to spell it with a 'G'?"  and "People are going to think you named him after the guy you were obsessed with in high school."  But Scott and I were steadfast in our decision because the name we chose for our son had special meaning to us.  For the record, his name is Gerald Anthony, and we call him Gerry.  Yes, it sounds like an "old man" name because it IS the name of two older men.  We named him after Scott's grandfather, Gerald, and my grandfather, Anthony.  Two strong men.  Two "family" men.  Two men that we loved and respected.  There was never a question in either of our minds that the name we chose was The One.  And you know something?  It fits our son perfectly.

6.  Throw your birth plan out the window.  A friend of mine is a labor and delivery nurse and she put it to me this way:  9 times out of 10, when a woman comes in with a birth plan, nothing goes according to her plan.  Every pregnancy is different and every labor is different.  With my first, I went into labor on my own the morning before my scheduled induction.  I was 6 cm when we got to the hospital, I got my epidural fairly quickly, felt little to no pain, pushed for 25 minutes, and had a wonderful birth experience.  Everything went smoothly, and I felt so proud and so powerful afterward.  I loved everything about it.  Everything.  The 2nd time around, though, was a bit of a nightmare.  I was induced 9 days past my due date and was expecting an even easier time of it, since I had done it once before.  This time, though, because of the medication used to induce, I didn't have any time to really realize and understand that Okay, this is it, I'm in labor.  In the space of less than an hour, I went from feeling nothing at all to having strong contractions one on top of the other with no break in between.  My epidural failed, and I essentially gave birth with no pain meds.  Because a failed epidural wasn't part of my "plan", and because I really didn't have time to think about the fact that I was going to give birth without any sort of aid to help with the pain, I freaked out a little bit.  I remember at one point just falling back onto the pillow, exhausted,  and saying, "I can't do it anymore.  I'm done."  (side note:  Just because you say you're done does not mean that your baby is going to listen to you and just come on out...you still have work to do).  Had I known beforehand that the epidural wasn't going to take, I could have prepared myself better and probably would have enjoyed the experience more.  I still only pushed for a little more than 20 minutes, but it was by far the most exhausting and most painful thing I've ever done.  The phrase "Plan for the worst and hope for the best" is a good one to abide by in this case

7.  Spend lots of one-on-one time with your husband before the baby is born.  Having a baby changes so many aspects of your life and, in my case, my marriage was the biggest change.  Once the baby was born, I had a hard time taking off my "Mommy" hat and putting on my "Wife" hat and, as a result, my marriage was neglected for awhile.  I spent, literally, all of my time and energy on focusing on my baby that I failed to realize that Scott needed some attention, too.  In the midst of all the craziness of being a new parent those first few weeks, though, I often thought about our last week together before our first baby was born.  And I still think about it.  Scott was on summer break and I started my maternity leave a few days before my due date.  Bailey, of course, came 6 days late, so Scott and I got a good week together without work or any other commitments getting in the way.  We spent those few days lounging around the house, taking walks, going to the movies, and talking about what we thought it was going to be like with a baby in the house.  Together.  That week was the last time that we only had to worry about ourselves.  The last time we got to be really selfish and do what we wanted to do.  The last time that it was "just us".  I will always remember those few days and I highly recommend every couple take a few days to just be with each other, with no distractions, before that baby comes.

8.  Have a "worst case scenario" plan in place.  This is something that no one wants to think about, especially when you're preparing to bring a new life into the world, but make sure that you have a plan in place in case, God forbid, something should happen to you or to the baby during delivery.  Scott knows all the important medical stuff about me and I made sure that he knew exactly how I felt about things and I wanted to be done if, by some horrible twist of fate, something awful were to happen to me or the baby or both of us.  I took it a step further and packed a giant index card on the very top of my hospital bag with all of my important medical information, birth date, "in case of emergency" wishes, and anything else I wanted my medical team to know about me and what I wanted for myself and my baby should an emergency arise.  I also made sure that I wrote that,' in the event that I am unable to make a conscious and coherent decision regarding my labor and delivery, I give full permission for my husband and my mother to make any and all medical decisions pertaining to my health and the health of my baby on my behalf'.  Odds are that you'll never need to use your "worst case scenario plan", but it always makes me feel better to have something in place.  Especially now that I've got children to worry about.

9.  Keep track of all those important pregnancy milestones.  There is nothing...NOTHING...better than feeling that first kick from your baby.  Hearing his or her heartbeat, seeing him or her in an ultrasound, baby hiccups, the rolls and tiny movements from your baby while "on the inside", finding out your baby's gender, buying his or her "coming home" outfit, your baby shower...there are so many important milestones during your pregnancy that it can be easy to forget things like dates and whatnot after the fact.  So write it down!  Keep a journal or a blog, set a note in your phone.  Take pictures when things happen.  Document the little and the big things that happen throughout your pregnancy, right up til the end.  It will be one of your very favorite things to have and to look back at after your baby is born. 

10.  Enjoy every single second of your pregnancy.  Even when you're so tired you can barely stay awake throughout the day.  Even when you're nauseous.  Even when (especially when) your baby is kicking the hell out of you and it feels like he's about to crack a rib or two.  I was in pain for most of my 2nd pregnancy, thanks to SPD and the fact that Gerry kicked like a soccer star and bounced around like a ninja on speed from very early on.  By the time I hit 40 weeks, I was just done.  I was ready to meet my little man, ready to be able to take a deep breath and to sleep comfortable again...I was just ready.  But when it was all said and done, and I was finally holding my son in my arms...I missed it.  I missed feeling him kicking like a lunatic.  I missed the big belly, and the hiccups.  I missed talking to my belly every day, and I missed the feeling that he and I were so incredibly connected.  I missed it.  So take the time to enjoy pregnancy, even if you're not feeling 100%.  You might just regret it if you don't. 

A Few Funnies...

Just had to share a few of the funny pictures and videos I took over the last few weeks because they made me smile!  :-)

 

The other day I kept trying to be stealthy and take a picture of Scott while he was playing his video game.  Why, you ask?  Because the man was standing about a foot away from the television while he played Madden.  Like a 6 year old.  Like it was going to help him play better if he stood closer to the tv.  As soon as he realized what I was up to he stopped.  I, on the other hand, continued to hound him relentlessly for a picture, and managed to snap this gem as he walked to the kitchen.

The most important thing about this photo is not the fact that Gerry is wearing reindeer antlers.  With bells on them, no less.  The important thing is the look on his face.  Like he feels completely idiotic for being made to wear a headband, thanks to his sister and his cousin, but also that he's resigned to the fact.  Let's face it...the kid is the only boy amid a house full of girls every day.  He should be thankful that they didn't put a sparkly pink princess tiara on his head. 

The other day we had to go clothes shopping for Scott (because he's lost almost 100lbs. in the last few months and nothing fits him anymore) and Bailey made the most of our excursion.  Did you notice that she was attempting to do the Gangnam Style dance?  Nothing' like a little fun while you're out shopping!

My Goals For Motherhood: Blogging With a Purpose

Things have been so busy around here lately that I haven't had time to sit down and devote much effort to the blog, so expect about a hundred posts all at once...I have a lot to catch up on!

The topic for today's Blogging With a Purpose is "My Goals For Motherhood".  If someone had asked me before I had kids, my goals would probably have been fairly superficial.  Raise my kids to be decent people...Retain some semblance of MILF status (don't laugh...these were my goals before having kids)...Dress my kids in cute clothes at all times...yadda, yadda, yadda.  Since having kids, though, my goals have changed (I'd like to think for the better).  Now, my most important goals for motherhood are...

...to teach my children respect.  For themselves and for others.  This one's kind of a no-brainer.  I was raised to show respect, and I expect my kids to do the same.  We work on manners with them very early, and more often than not Bailey will say "please" and "thank you" without being prompted.  That's not to say that she's got it down pat...we still work on both teaching and showing respect every single day.  My hope is that, by seeing Scott's and my behavior toward others and toward each other, that our children will grow up to be respectful individuals by nature. 

...to show my children what a healthy, loving relationship is.  Growing up, my parents weren't ones for public displays of affection.  I know that they both love me and my siblings, but it wasn't often spoken in our house and I can count on one hand the number of times I've actually witnessed an affectionate moment between my parents.  Scott is a much more outwardly affectionate person than I am.  It took me awhile to be comfortable hugging and/or kissing him in public, and I think we were both surprised at how the other approached it.  Since Bailey and Gerry were born, we've worked hard to show them what a loving relationship looks like.  We tell them that we love them every single day, that we're proud of them, and that they make us happy.  We give them hugs and kisses like it's going out of style.  And we also make sure to tell each other, in the presence of our children, that we love each other.  Bailey and Gerry have witnessed many a loving moment between Scott and me, and our hope is that they grow up to appreciate and to honor their own relationships.

...to teach my kids to love and respect their bodies.  There is so much more to this than just realizing and discovering their bodies.  I want them to love their body for what it can do and not for how it looks.  As she gets older, I want Bailey to look in the mirror and appreciate the way her limbs move when she dances or how her hands work together with the rest of her body when she plays an instrument or throws a ball.  I do not want her to focus on the few extra pounds she may be carrying or the stretch marks that may appear.  When Gerry looks in the mirror, I want him to appreciate the strength in those legs he likes to kick so much these days or how well the different parts of his body work together to enable him to do the things he loves to do, whether it be playing sports or an instrument, or simply drawing or painting.  I do not want him to only appreciate his body for the muscles he may or may not have.  I want my children to know that they are more than just bodies.  Thin or not, muscular or not, tall or not, they are people and they are loved.

...to be present as my children grow up.  I don't think there's a mother on Earth who has children with the sole purpose of ignoring them once they're born.  One of the goals that is most important to me is to be there as my children grow.  In this age of technology, it's easy to get distracted by the internet or our cell phones or Twitter/Facebook, and it breaks my heart when I see other parents miss out on some of the amazing things their kids do because they had their noses buried in their iPhone.  I'll admit that I'm guilty of letting technology consume me at times, but I make a very concentrated effort to put away my phone when I'm with my kids.  Sure, I may be on the computer when we're at home and they're playing quietly with toys.  But I never let technology keep me from my kids when they need or want me.  I'm home with them all day every day, a decision and a choice that I've never regretted making, and I love the fact that I'm there for it all.  I want to be there for every athletic event, every art show, every poetry reading, every concert, every thing that they do, for as long as they'll let me.  I want them to know that I'm interested and focused on them, and that I support them.  When they grow up, I want them to remember that mom was always there.

...to give my children a healthy sense of self.  Scott and I have created some damn adorable children together; people are always commenting on how pretty Bailey's eyes are or what a great smile Gerry has, and how they both should have been Gerber babies.  I'm proud and happy that other people think they're as beautiful as I do, but I want them to know that they are SO much more than just pretty faces.  They're smart and strong and creative and funny and fascinating, and I don't ever want them to think that their worth is wrapped up solely in their looks.  They are so much more than that, and I want them to know and to appreciate that as they get older.

...to show my children that I love them every day.  Bailey is 3 now, and we've had many, many days where we were both just "done" by bedtime.  We've pushed each other's buttons, we've raised our voices a time or two, and we've been disappointed and angry with each other on occasion.  I suspect that it'll be much of the same with Gerry as he hits those difficult toddler years.  But no matter how angry they're made me or how frazzled I've been, I always -- ALWAYS-- make a point to tell my children that I love them.  Every day.  A million times a day.  Even after Bailey has screamed and thrown a tantrum and I've banished her to her room for a timeout...I always tell her that I love her.  Even after all that.  Especially after all that.  Because I want them to know that no matter how angry or sad or disappointed I may get, I will always love them.  No matter what.  There is nothing they can do that will make me stop loving them.  Nothing.  One of my happiest moments of motherhood so far has been Bailey saying that she loves me.  After a temper tantrum, when she's happy, when she's sad, and for no reason at all.  Hearing those words from her, unprompted, makes me happy in a way that I never expected.  And I know that she knows that I love her, too.  When I say it, and when I show it. 

Gerry: 8 Months Old

Time is just flying by these days...Gerry is already 8 months old.  How did this happen?  Just yesterday, I was going to the hospital and now he's almost a year old?! 

He's still just amazing, and every day I'm thankful for him.  For his sunny and sweet disposition, his little giggle, the ginormous smile I get every time he sees me.  He's fighting an Upper Respiratory Infection and teething right now, and he's STILL just smiling away.  I'm in awe of what a happy little guy he is.

Personality:  calm and happy; nothing brings him down.

Nicknames:  Tank (Bailey hates this one, and refuses to call him Tank), Handsome Man, Little Man

Likes:  Mommy, Daddy, Bailey; Cheerios, Ice Cream, Fruit; Peek-a-boo; Splashing in the bath tub; Mickey Mouse; Anything that makes noise; Remotes; Kicking his feet; Being tickled.

Dislikes:  Not being able to crawl and, therefore, being stuck scooching around in circles on his belly.

New Skills:  Working on drinking from a sippy cup; Perfecting his pincer grasp; Scooching around on his belly (usually backwards and in circles) to get places; Raising himself up on his arms.  Not quite crawling yet.

Sleep:  Still getting a good 10-12 hours per night, but he wakes up once now, usually around 2:30am.  Takes a small bottle and goes right back to sleep(7pm - about 7am).

Before we know it, we'll be planning his first birthday party...crazy! 

Summer Roundup 2...In Pictures!

This summer has been crazy busy (what else is new, right?) but so much fun!


Gerry got his first two teeth at 7 months old, the exact same age Bailey was when she got her first tooth.  He handled the first one like a champ, but was not happy about tooth number tooth (and now number three) coming through.

He's been pretty fussy and, of course, everything is going in his mouth.  I ordered an amber teething necklace for him online, and it should be here this week.  In the meantime, we've been giving him teething rings galore and infant Advil to help with the pain. 

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Bailey got her first real hair cut!  Meg finally talked her into letting her cut it, and she loves it.  She keeps telling us she looks like a princess now, and she's super proud of it.

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We've enjoyed some days at the pool.  Bailey always takes awhile to get herself in (just like her mommy), but once she's in there she has a blast.  And Gerry?  Well, he likes pretty much everything.  He'll stand there all afternoon, happily kicking his feet and splashing the water.

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Bailey and Gerry still astound me with their sibling adoration.

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And there's nothing better than hanging out with cousins!

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 Now that I've realized that I can flip the camera on my phone and take pictures of myself with the kids instead of always being the one behind the camera, I take as many opportunities as I can to get in a picture with Bailey and/or Gerry. In true Bailey fashion, she's definitely not as cooperative as Gerry is.  But I do what I can.

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Finally...Scott has lost 80lbs this summer...80 LBS!!  He's been working his ass off (literally) and the results are amazing.  He's still working on it, but he's come a long way in just 3 months, and I'm proud of him!  He'll probably hate me for doing this, but I'm going to post some comparison photos here so you all can see how far he's come.

Pre-weightloss:

And here he is 80lbs later...

Back in his sweatpants from high school!

I admire the hell out of him for working so hard all summer, and for continuing to not give up.  He lost weight on vacation, and he's not letting anything get in his way.  His willpower is amazing and he's still going strong!

Gerry: 7 Months Old

Gerry is 7 months old today...officially closer to a 1-year-old now than to an infant.  I don't know whether to be happy or sad about that.  He's growing up so fast, and has such an amazing personality...I thank my lucky stars every day for him.

Some news in Gerry's life:  he got his very first tooth today!  It's on the bottom and I wouldn't have had a clue it was cutting through if I hadn't happened to see a teeny flash of white while we were playing this morning.  In true Gerry fashion, he's been super happy and calm, even with the tooth cutting through.  He hasn't been fussy and hasn't cried beyond the little whine he does to fall asleep. 

Another milestone:  we moved him to the crib in his bedroom this month.  I was teary that first night, and thought for sure that he was going to wake up and be sad, thinking we abandoned him.   But he proved me wrong, slept through the night like a champ, and woke up with a huge smile and happy as can be.  He naps in there, as well, and is sleeping better than I ever expected.

Personality:  calm and happy; go with the flow

Nickname: Tank

Likes: Mommy, Daddy, Bailey; puffs; his bottle; sitting up all by himself; kicking his feet; blowing raspberries; being tickled; bath time; toy phones; Mickey Mouse; most foods (sweet potatoes, carrots, bananas, peas, ice cream)

Dislikes: Waiting too long to be fed; when a toy is juuuust beyond his reach

New Skills:  Can sit unassisted; uses pinscher grasp to pick up small foods and put them in his mouth; scooching to move toward objects

Sleeps: A solid 10-12 hours per night.

I know I say this all the time, but Gerry really is such an amazing baby.  Seeing him and Bailey together makes me happier than I ever would have thought.  Scott and I are pretty lucky!

Blogging With a Purpose: If I Could Turn Back Time

(Linking up with Becky again this week)

First things first.  I can't possibly be the only one who now has Cher's song stuck in my head, right?  Right?  All kidding aside, this post was an interesting one for me to write.  I often think to myself, If I knew then what I know now..., and think about how I would have approached or reacted in a situation had I known what my future was going to be like.  They say hindsight is 50/50, and it's true.

I wouldn't change a thing about my life, because I wouldn't be where I am today if I did.  I don't regret the way things happened in my life because -- again --those things brought me to where I am today...and I'm so, so happy with my life.  But I do wish that, in the moment, I had my future self whispering in my ear that things would be okay, that I would turn out just fine.  So, if I could go back in time, here's what I'd do...

...I would tell my 10-year-old self that the bullies don't matter.  I would tell her that if she can hold out until high school things will get infinitely better.  Yes, she will be tormented every day, to the point where she  truly doesn't know how much more she can take.  But high school is a whole new world, and she'll make some of her best friendships there.  Just hold on. 

...I would tell my 15-year-old self to play it cool with the high school crush.  I was ridiculously obsessed with a senior during my sophomore year, and I probably acted like a total fool because of it.  Looking back, it's so embarrassing, but at the time it was all-consuming lust.  I can only shake my head now, but good Lord...how mortifying.  Tone it down, little lady.

...to stop for a minute and think about why an 18-year-old guy would be interested in her 15-year-old self.  I'd also give my 15-year-old self a high five for not letting said 18-year-old force her into something she wasn't ready for.  Yes, his anger was scary and the subsequent break-up hurt.  But being dumped hurt a whole lot less than her self-esteem would have had she not stood her ground.

...I would tell my 17-year-old self  -- oh, there are so many things I'd tell my 17-year-old self ...

• ...to slow down and enjoy every second of her time with her first "real" boyfriend.  My teenage years were a blur, but they were a happy blur.  I'll always regret, though, that I didn't "stop and smell the roses" more often when it came to my first real relationship.  I loved him and respected him, but when the relationship was over I realized that I hadn't truly lived it enough in the moment, and I mourned the hell out of that loss.
• ...not to choose a college based on where her boyfriend is located.  Ultimately, I attended the college I was meant to.  But I wish I had given myself more freedom to choose a school that wasn't so close instead of sticking around for a boyfriend who ended up breaking up with me the day of my high school graduation.
• ...that someone else will love you.  I had my heart broken for the first and only time when I was 17 and, in typical teenage fashion, I spent days in tears thinking that the only person on the planet who could ever love me didn't want me.  It took me years to come to terms with that break-up and to realize that someone else could and would and wanted to be with me (thank you, Scott).
• ...not to meet up with the ex who broke her heart.  I don't even know what we were looking for here, but I do know that nothing good ever came of it.  Every time we said goodbye it was like breaking up all over again.  A clean break would have been much better for us all-around.  Hindsight...

...I would tell my 18-year-old self that the one day she slept through her alarm and had to run to class in sweats with no make-up on and her hair in a crazy messy ponytail would be the start of the rest of her life.  Spoiler alert:  that was the day she first met her future husband.  And he loves her -- no make-up, crazy messy ponytail and all.

...I would tell my 22-year-old self not to be so jealous of her younger sister.  Just because she got engaged and married before it was even a possibility for you does not mean that it will never be your turn.  Your time will come.  Keep smiling and be happy for your sister because marriage is a wonderful thing and she found herself a good man.

...I would tell my 25-year-old self not to stress so much about her pregnancy.  I was so thrilled but terrified at the same time, and there were times when I let the fear get to me and swallow up all the elation of being pregnant.  I would tell myself that everything will work out wonderfully, and things will all fall into place.

...I would tell my 26-year-old self to focus on my marriage just as much as I focus on my new baby.  Don't let motherhood make you forget that you're also a wife and you have a marriage that needs nurturing just like your baby does.  Show your husband how much you love and appreciate him through your actions as well as your words.

...I would tell ALL of my "selves", at every stage of my life, to be thankful for my family.  I wouldn't be the person I am today without my family, and I thank my lucky stars that these are the people God chose to surround me with.  Break-ups, weddings, births, happiness, sadness and everything in between...my family was there.  We celebrate the good things together and we're there for the bad, and I couldn't ask for a more wonderful group of people to spend this life with.  I don't think I've ever told them all how much I love and appreciate them, but I hope they know that I do.


There are so, so many things I'd tell myself if I could turn back time.  Looking back, I think the main theme of my life (so far) is that the best is yet to come.  I wish that, in the moment, I had the foresight to stress less, to know that everything would be alright.  I think I do that a lot now, though -- remind myself that everything will be alright.  It's easy to let life consume you, to stop living it and to just be dragged along by it.  If I could turn back time, I wouldn't do anything differently, but I sure would give myself the heads up that things are going exactly as they should be for me.


NEXT WEEK'S TOPIC:  If I Could Have One Super Power

What We've Been Up To...In Pictures

We've had a lot going on this summer, and I haven't blogged as often as I would have liked to. So here's another picture post to sum up what we've been doing lately.  Enjoy!

Bailey had her first dance recital, and it was awesome!

The girls with Miss Holly

And with Miss Bianca

The Dansarts Crew

Bailey and Madison

We also celebrated her 3rd birthday...

 

 Scott and I took Bailey to Hershey Park as our birthday present to her.  A day full of rides, food and fun...what more could a girl ask for?

Fun in the Waterpark (Hershey)

On the Chocolate World ride

 

Bailey and Gerry had some good times together...

Funny faces in the car

G discovered that solid food isn't so bad

So Bailey shared some water ice with him

Sibling love

Both kids were adorable, as always....

Scott re-did our backyard...

The Before

During

And After...the grass finally grew in where the dirt used to be!

Scott posed with both kids while we were out to eat one day...

And we all took a surrey ride on vacation...

Luckily, we still have a few more weeks of summer left...which means more time for more photo ops.  So check back for more!